How can I see my son, without my ex-girlfreind threatinning me?

DO NOT - DO NOT - DO NOT take your son away from your girlfriend, even if you have partial custody (visitation rights) legally!!!

The implication here is that neither of them has any custody., which makes it perfectly legal for him to take his son…I know, I’ve been through this.

make it a court matter. It’s your son and you have the right to see him. Don’t let anyone take that right away from you.

Go to the court and file for joint custody. If she has no order against you, then she can’t stop you from seeing your son…technically, if you were to see her out in public, you could just go and take her from him with no repercussions.

If you have a legitimate complaint, file a motion with the court to get an injunction forcing her to provide visitation. If you’re just being melodramatic about how hellish your life is right now, keep doing that.

dudee go to court , tel her it YOUR son to , she can go to jail for that f she keeps him from you unless she has some file that says you cant see him

Its your son you have the right to see him even if you do not pay child support. You can file for visitation rights.

DO NOT - DO NOT - DO NOT take your son away from your girlfriend, even if you have partial custody (visitation rights) legally!!! You can be charged with kidnapping if she has primary custody and did not give you permission to take the boy!!!

The following information is only for a person who is paying child support. If you are not paying child support, you have NO legal rights to see your son. None!

Definitely DO take the child’s mother to court and get legal rights to access. If you get visitation rights, make the court SPECIFY exactly what dates and times belong to you. Then, if she refuses to comply, the police can help you physically remove your son to your custody - but only for the duration of the specified visitation. If you attempt to return the child to the mother at the agreed-upon location, and she is more than 15 minutes late, call the police (preferably their NON-emergency number) and report the situation. This will save you a lot of grief should she report that you failed to or refused to return the child!

Getting joint custody of a child is easier to do in court, but is much harder to enforce unless (as above) you have specifically designated each day of the year to a certain parent. Otherwise, if you want to visit with your son, she can say “no,” and you don’t have a leg to stand on, legally, unless she’s denied you visitation for several months.

Another clause you may wish to include in whatever legal agreement you negotiate is who will pay transportation costs should one or both adult parties move out of the area. Generally, the person who moves is required to pay transport fees, UNLESS the other parent’s income is substantially greater; then that person will most likely be required to pay transportation fees. If both parties have approximately equal incomes, the court may require the custodial parent to pay to send the child to the other parent. In other words, she would pay to send your son to you, but you would have to pay to send the child back to her.

I find that a little mest up…you need to talk to her because thats your son too