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Why won't they let us sleep next to each other?

I’m 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and we have a semi-long distance relationship (1 hour and 30 minutes) away from each other. My boyfriend is allowed to stay at my house for weekends and during the summer when we aren’t in school and I do the same down at his place, but our parents won’t even let us sleep next to each other let alone in the same room. I wouldn’t even think about having sex with him, and he thinks the same way, so why can’t we just sleep next to each other? I thought that my parents trusted me and I haven’t gotten pregnant the four years we have been together, isn’t that enough to prove to them? Is there anything I could do to make them let us? Or are they just not letting us for other reasons? I’m kinda confused…

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Answer #1

Key word: boyfriend, not husband (avoiding that temption) - in short, they’re looking after your best interests whether you realize it or not…Take care !!

Answer #2

parents are protective, especially with daughters. im not a parent, I dont even have a sister, the closest thing I have to a female relative is my friends little sister…and I will break anyones face who tries to do anything to her…now imagine how a parent would feel. you dont have to understand, you just have to trust me, daughters have a special place in a fathers and brothers heart. we are over protective and dont want to see anything happen. we love and care about you girls more than you will ever know

Answer #3

maybe you could kinda go into the room he is sleeping in while everyones awake and just talk to him..you could show your parents how well you are while just sitting in the same room alone..try not to play around though..just talk..this is what I did when I wanted my parents to trust me with a guy.

OR you could sneak…(this isnt always good)but worth a try

one last suggestion is that you ask them why they dont trust you..

but to tell you the truth..I belive they trust YOU..but NOT the guy. they raised you right…but they didnt raise HIM.parents only want the best.even if it does seem unfair.

good luckxx

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