Mother wont let us hang over there

I’m 14. My mom is comfortable with me and my boyfriend being together because she trust us, but the room thing iz a little extreme. It might be innocent at first but one thing can lead to another (u shud know how the rest of that story goes)

But when you and your mom is having a good day just bring him up and talk about it. Try not 2 make the convo turn in2 a war…

ya my friend was in there to its not like we were going to do anything in front of her

that would be awkward.

but ya she left like like 10 min before my mom came

aarons_senorita summed it up nicely for me… you may not plan to do anything, but stuff happens. When I was 14 I swore to my mother it wouldnt. I never planned for it (or thought about it). But it happened anyways. How is your mother supposed to know you werent going to do anything, or how long you were alone for? Give her a break, the last thing she wants is for her daughter to get hurt in some way. If you want her to trust you, show her you can be trusted… stop fighting her on parental supervision. Compromise… Ask to go to the movies, but sit in different places… After a while ask if you can go to different movies in the same theatre in a group… then work up to seperate dates with her within some distance… the less you fight her, the less she’s going to worry you’re up to something…

Sounds like your mum doesnt want you to have a boyfriend really, have you tried just sitting her down and not being confruntational about it, maybee she wants you to stay her little girl, try explainig to her that you have a brain and your no having sex everytime your left alone, or try making a deal with her like every other date is on your own so at least wyour both kinda getting what you want x