waiter are feeding me first!

okay, I’m big in size however dont look obese.

my friend and family are all smaller than me on size.

this is my situation:

whenever I go out with them to a restaurant, I always try to choose the smallest thing for I dont like to pig out at all.

but my friends and family do.

whenever the waiters and I mean waiterSSS show up with the food, without even asking they put the biggest plate infront of me!

when others say, “oh thats my plate” the waitersss pass the plate to them then place the next big plate infront of me!

am I just stereotyped by others to serve me the biggest thing that could be served on a plate?

kinda discouraging dont you think?

Answer #1

tell them off!!!

Answer #2

wow how rude

Answer #3

it’s stupid of the waiters to do this to you and they are wrong to caterogize you just because you are big in size. don’t take it personal, those people just have issues. you could just ignore it, but if it really bothers you, next time do this: when you’re at a resturant (I’m pretty sure I spelled that wrong) and you are about to be served say something along the lines of, : “ I can’t wait to have my shrimp.” say it loud enough for the waiters to hear so they know excactly what you ordered.

Answer #4

I think you might be generalizing this just a bit… most waiters remember who ordered what… I’m fat, my friends are of course all anorexic looking, no seriously they’re all trying to put on weight (why me!) and I dont think that’s ever happened to me… at least I’ve never noticed… look, just eat what you want, ignore what people think… really who cares?

Answer #5

Sounds like you are stereotyped. Don’t give them a tip and tell them the’re an @SShole for being stereotypical.

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