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Should I trust him enough to go out with him?

Ok, I really liked this guy but he is 3 years older than me, he asked me out, and i didnt see him for 3 days, so you know i couldn’t really say yes to someone who i didnt see, but once i did see him, he was going out with this girl named, well im not going to name names, but yea he was going out with her, and he had told me before that the only reason that he was going out with her was because she would have sex with him. ( they had gone out a couple months before), but last week he stop and tried to talk to me, but i told him i didnt want to talk to him, then he asked my friend to talk to him and she did, and he told her that he had to ask her a very important question, well the question ended up being if she thought i would go out with him or not, and she told me he was going to call me on tuesday, so i dont know what i should say, because i still like him and he is really sweet but i dont know if i can trust him, or if he just wants me to have sex with him. so please help me, any advice will help.

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Answer #1

Heh. So…this guy sounds like a jerk. We all know that guys think with their dicks but come on! I say screw him and find someone better! There are many flavors out there.

BUT…if you do still like him, then this is what you should do: Be Honest! Tell him that you aren’t quite sure of his intentions. I am assuming you don’t want to have sex with this guy…at least not yet. He does seem somewhat reliable considering he asked you out before he got together with this girl. And often guys will go back to their ex’s when they are feeling vulnerable or know that their ex is easy. If he sounds honest and sincere and you think you can trust him than go for it. You’ll never know unless you try! Just be sure it’s what YOU want and don’t let your heart get the better of you. It’s good to follow your mind sometimes too.

Hope this helped!

Answer #2

You really think that a guy that admits he is using another girl for sex is “really sweet”. If he can’t go without it for 3 days after he asked you out…think about this, if you aren’t having sex with him then is he going to call her or someone else? Good luck, but you deserve and could do better.

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