How do I convince my mom to allow me to go on a trip with my boyfriend this Christmas?

I will be turning 18 very soon, me and my boyfriend are very serious about our relationship. His dad invited me to go with them to Portugal and Spain! My mother, is a Christian and I know she will be afraid we will have sex and such (which we havent yet, decided to wait), so I know it will be difficult. How can I get her to trust me and to trust him?

Answer #1

Tell her you’ll wear a chastity belt. Jk… Let her know you want to wait til your wedding night to give your husband your special gift. Let her know that you would like her to be able to trust you. you are growing up and will have to make your own decisions. She can’t keep you tied up forever.

Answer #2

tell her that she needs to trust you like the way you trusted your mom’s way of raising you.

Answer #3

lol @ the belt :)

Answer #4

Run away with him :D

Answer #5

I am not running away with you :O my mom will LOVE that.

Answer #6

I’ll bet she trusts you, just not BF….the thing is, this is an opportunity of a lifetime…very educational, an opportunity to be in a different culture….AND it’s not like there will be no supervision, his parents are going to be there….has she met his parents?? Maybe ALL get together and talk about the trip..his parents, your mom….you and him…?

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Answer #7

tell her dat she should trust u knowing dat she raised u to wait until marriage plus his parents will be there maybe it would help if she talks with his parents they could probably convince her easier than u can since they are parents as well =]

Answer #8

tell her that she needs to trust you and trust that she has raised you well, and given you the tools to make the right decisions for yourself!!

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