Lost a nice guy and my parents don't trust me

I am a dark skinned fourteen year old usually boys aint interested in me but I met a boy through one of my friends and it seemed he liked me.I went to see him with my cousin and he actually did like me he was nice kind and everything it was really a good day. the next day I wasnt planning on going out because I was met to stay at home but one of my friends came round and perusaded me to go see him we went but once we got there my friend started to claim she felt uncomfortable when usually shes the life of everything we do. he and his friends tried their best to my her feel comfort shaking her hand introducing themselves & etc. we had to leave in the end because she wasnt havin it then he called me he was angry because he had tried to be nice and everything long story short he told ME to delete his number and now he refused to speak to me. not as though it wasnt bad enough I got home my parents were angry I went out because I have very strict parents I was even called a slut when I dont even get NOTICED by boys let alone be having sex with them. now I’ve found out the one of the boy’s friend from that day has got my friend’s number and contacted her now apparently they are ALRIGHT! because now apparently they like each other! I don’t know what to do but he really was a nice guy not like most of the boys in my area who just want girls to have sex & etc but he wont speak to me and I have tried to speak to him, I don’t know whether to speak to my friend because I have a feeling she only did that because the meeting wasn’t for her which I find unfair because she has lots of boys liking her whereas I have one which I have lost, and to make matters worse now my parents don’t trust me at all whereas before they didn’t trust me let me think AT ALL! I don’t reallly really need help about this boy and my friend!

Answer #1

well indeed charla it is a personal problem but she still asked for our help. I think you shoul go talk to your friend. tell her whats bothering you but put it in a nice way you dont want to loose her. say something like well the other day when we went to go see the guy you like you were just concerned about what was going on with her and why she was so unconfortable. if she tells you she just was ask her what the reason was it could just be jealousy of something. maybe she is jealous because you had this great guy and she hasnt found someone like that yet. but just be conforting jealousy is a nasty thing that a person really cant help. then go to the guys house and talk to him in person. ask him why he is so mad at you and tell him that you would at least lie to be friends. I cant really help you with your parents sorry because I dont understand them… hope I heped and need more help funmail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #2

sound like a personal problem…

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