Is it right for us to try for a baby?

me and my girlfriend have been together for a long time now, she is 18 I am 19. and have been taking for a long time if its rite for us to try for a baby. she really wants one more than me and I want it too and also want to make her happy. . yes we have been college and are in our careers. only thing we do need is a place of our own which we are looking for, we do have the money to find someware and for the things to go in it.

I know that people say having kids at this age can lead to parents splitting up. but that can happen in any relationship to be honest. even if your married there is a possibilty of devorse…

Answer #1

I dont agree wid adrianna cause if you just wunt your lady to be happy! you have to want the baby too

Answer #2

well I would like her to get preg too, I would support her and the kid. its not something she just wants, some people say we be too young but no matter what age you have a kiad its going to be just as hard. someone poeple say ignor the people who say negotive things because its what we want. ?

Answer #3

my boyfriend is 19 and im 18. we both want a baby too..bad..more than anything…it what you really want and if it makes you happy do it. just know thats its a big change, and you just have to be ready for it!

Answer #4

I agree with midnight… settle down first and marry her or something cause what if you two break up and now the baby is left with no father hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

Answer #5

dont do it now, first of all you guys are too young (become like older~~enjoy life more) 2nd of all GET MARRIed and more stuffies, cant remember them x]

Answer #6

Ya you guys are at the age that you should do what ever you guys want to do. ignore the people who say wit.

Answer #7

I say you get a house and make sure you have enough money to support it then try for a baby. Don;t have one just because you want your girlfriend happy, I mean yeah thats good and all but if you dont want it then dont have it just yet. if you really love eachother you can put it off a little while longer.

hope I helped, xoxo :)

Answer #8

I was 19 when my partner and I had our son (he’s now 18months). I love them both more than anything in this world, but once you have a child your whole life is changed, those nights you use to just decide hey im bored lets go out arent so easy to have anymore. If I gave you one piece of advice that I knew you would take it would be, if you know anyone that has a young child ask to babysit them for the night so you realise how hard it actually is, because nothing can prepare you for the late nights and early mornings, nappy changes, feeding, burping, its a 24 hour, seven day a week job. hope this helps

Answer #9

my advice to you is to get your house and start your jobs and once everything has setteled down with doing that then plan a baby three of the must stressfull things are buying a house, starting a new job, and haveing a baby. you dont want to do all three at once. the less stress on pregnant woman the better you dont want her to get so stressed out with getting a house and job and carry a baby what happens is the mother has a miscarriage. Take your time and good luck.

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