What do you think of my step dad? trying to get to know me better?

Me my sister and my mom have lived with my step dad for about a month now. And personally I think he’s kind of creepy. And I don’t know whether he’s trying to get to know me better or just being perverted.

Like two weeks ago he sat next to me on the couch and started making conversation, which at first I had no problem with, but then he started asking me EXTREMELY personal questions after a while. He even asked if I was still a virgin! Is that creepy or what!? I told one of my bff’s and she’s suggesting that maybe it was his way of getting to know people better. Yeah Right!!

Then another time, maybe about 3 weeks ago, it was just me and him at home. And he randomly decided to go into my room. And then he tried to shut the door. So I stopped it and he told me he needed to talk to me about something. Therefore I reminded him that no one else was home and whatever needed to be talked about could be talked about WITH the door open. Then he came up with a pathetic excuse of “Oh I forgot what I was going to tell you”. That time I told my mom what happened and she just brushed it off and told me that I needed to “give him some time to adjust” Right…

Oh yeah, and wouldn’t you say it was a little to early to be giving hugs and little kisses on the cheek to someone elses kids!? I mean seriously it’s only been like a month. My sister doesn’t feel comfortable with it, and neither do I, and yet my mom keeps telling us that he’s trying to ADJUST. And that we should give him some time, and that he’s just trying to get to know us better.

Anyways, I’m getting really frustrated and just wanted to know what you guys thought of it?

And does anyone have any ideas on how I could at least explain to him that the things he does sometimes makes me feel uncomfortable? I don’t want to piss him off either.

Thanks for any helpful answers!