Slept with my best-friend's ex

I slept with my best friends ex boyfriend when they were together! thats been my best friend since 6th grade and I love her deeply and now her ex is telling everyone that we had sex and im denying it, but I feel so guilty inside. she believes me and shes like I would never chose a boy over you and Like I have no idea of what to do. I dont want to loose her, shes always been there for me, and I never thought I would hurt her like that…or back stab her..please help me out..im really confused of what I should do. I dont want to end up loosing my real friend over a guy

Answer #1

Tell her the truth. Tell her that it was in a moment of weakness and that you’ve regretted it ever since. Ask her not to hate you and to try to forgive you.

Tell her her friendship means everything to you and that accordingly you couldn’t go on lying to her.

Answer #2

tell her the truth in a very respectful way and tell her that you never meant for this to hurt her, but she should appreciate your honesty

Answer #3

well to tell you the truth thats really mest up but tell her the truth give her sum time and she mite for give u!

Answer #4

If you didn’t want to hurt her in the first place… Why would you sleep with her ex!? The only thing you can really do is tell her the truth. Tell her your sorry and you love her and you would never do anything to hurt her but it kind of just happened. Yeah she will be mad, give her time to get over it. Apologize everyday, over and over. Goodluck and make better disissions next time.

Answer #5

well to tell you the truth thats really mest up but tell her the truth give her sum time and she mite for give u!

Answer #6

well to tell you the truth thats really mest up but tell her the truth give her sum time and she mite for give u!

Answer #7

Ethmer has rightly pointed out,you should tell her the truth and explain that something must have led to u ending up with him but that does not show ur feelings for the guy.

Convey her that you are sincerely sorry and wont happen ever !!

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