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What to do after finding out my best friend slept with my ex?

so the other night at a party my best friend is rolling and i am quite drunk and he pulls me aside and tells me that he had slept with my ex-gf…what makes it worse is that me and my ex still hang out and have casual sex and r just good friends in general…but now that this has come to light i know i can never look at either of them the same way again…the worst part is when i asked her if she ever planned on telling me she said she didnt know if she would b/c she didnt want to hurt me with her mistakes…now i know she was drunk and he was prob on some drugs but i still don’t think that its an excuse because she was obviously sober enough to remember doing it…after the initial incident theyve never done anything again but i have no idea what to do…anyone care to help?

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Answer #1

The only way friends with benefits with an ex can work, is if both parties are NO longer emotionally involved. Both are NOT commited to one another, and are free to have sex with other people. If that bothers you, then maybe you need to end it. If you choose not to, Id be careful though if shes sleeping around….STDS!

Answer #2

i would just leave both of them alone to be honest

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