How can I deal with my parents putting me in the middle?

My mom and dad hate eachother, and whenever I’m at my mom’s house, she’s always offering me to go on a website or something for a book, I dunno. And I’m like,’well, I dunno. What’s the book about?’ and all of a sudden, she says,’if you dad said to do it you’d do it without hesitation’ and just storms out of my room?

It always gets to me and I know that’s not what happens. It’s been eating my feelings away, because she’ll either put words in my mouth or call me a bunch of names.

Answer #1

u know what talk to a guidance counceller

Answer #2

when ever something comes up

Answer #3

u know what just ignore them talk to your mom later when shes in a good mood and tell her what you think

shes just upset thats all what names does she call u?? if you dont prefer to tell me it alrite but like are they mean?? listen music or something just get your mind of it

Answer #4

tell your sis!! she ll get your mom to change her language bout you because she still loves you and there has to be soemthin gin her heart which has you in it!!

Answer #5

dnot even in front of here or in her house.. she hates him dont remind her of him

Answer #6

It’s difficult. :l

Answer #7

dotn talk botu your dad with her you know what she needs someone with her rite and its u..

Answer #8

she frustrated bout somehting if your nat helping her then she s gonna mad not saying your wrong but its just stick wiht for couple of days you need to get back her trust then get her off drugs

Answer #9

The weird thing about that is, she normally talks about me behind my back and my sisters tell me about it. She loves my sister Lacey so much, and Lacey’s even worse than me, I guess. Well, to her. I don’t really do anything.

Answer #10

Because she asks me if I like this, or ‘did I get that whatever thing right?’. It’s because she’s not the smartest person, and if someone helps her with it she takes it the wrong way.

Answer #11

Yeah, even when she isn’t. She put me through a lot, and I respect my dad and step mom because they’re always there for me. Don’t get me wrong, my mom tries to be too, but if I even say,’I’m going to call my dad real quick and tell him about my day’ then she yells at me and says I don’t love her.

-.-

Answer #12

is she the kind of person who always HAS TO RIGHT/??

Answer #13

OMG holy crap… I feel soo sry for u… omg its the drugs then stay away from her.. dont try to get her off drugs on your own.. get someone to get her off drugs thats the problem

Answer #14

What do you do usually to get her annoyed with you?

Answer #15

why do you say no?

Answer #16

I don’t really do anything. If she asks me something, like if I like somthing or not, and I say no. Then she just yells at me.

Answer #17

talk to soem1 but not your friends like kids help phone they can give good advise my advise is to talk to your mom or ignore her and listen to music but this because this is bit too much throwing anger at kids is not what you shud be doing its bad parenting

Answer #18

Well, I don’t always talk to her because she’s always on her drugs and stuff. I don’t live with my dad, but I switch to houses back and forth. She calls me a like a b/itch, a dumbass, and says I’m a mean kid. -_-

Answer #19

has she lost her job or something lately?

Answer #20

talk to your dad bout this

Answer #21

She is probably just very fustrated with the situation… there must be a lot of things going through her mind at the moment… I think that maybe if you make a special effort to let her know that you love her and that just because you live with your Dad doesn’t mean that you love her less.

She probably feels quite fustrated with the situation… maybe it would help to just have a chat about things… get things into the open =]

Good luck

  • Jess =]
Answer #22

add me as a friend ill fun mail you advice

Answer #23

well… then I wish I could there where you r

Answer #24

amd help you out

Answer #25

Thanks. :l

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