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Why wont my mom let me and my boyfriend go in my room?

Okayy well we’ve been dating for about a month, hes 16 im 14. The 1st time he came over my mom let us go in my room door closed and locked lights off, no problem. Then out of the blue one day shes ike your never doing that again. I dont know why. We didnt have sex, and arent planning on it for awhile. Im responsible enough to handle this and she doesnt get it. If we wanted to I’d ask her to take me to get birth control, she knows this but still wont let me. Its ridiculous, how can I get her to change her mind? Plus were not going up there to “do something” we just go up there because I have a 6 yr old sister who can become clingy and not leave us alone.

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Answer #1

your mom is smart. It’s probably uncomfortable for your mom if you are locked in your room with the lights off with your boyfriend. Eventually sex is going to happen, and even if it doesnt, its setting up a pretty perfect situation to let it happen. It would be irresponsible as a parent for her to let you do something like that. Not to mention its kind of disrespectful to be hooking up with a guy in your room with your mom there in the house. Also, you have a little sister, thats probably not something your mom wants her to see or think is ok to do at 14.

Answer #2

I’m surprised she let you the first time. You cant expect your mom to let you at age 14, thats crazy. I’m 18-years-old and my parents still feel really weird allowing my boyfriend in my room at times. Your not an adult yet whether your having sex or not, she doesn’t know that. You can tell her you aren’t all you want. My mom says she feels like an irresponsible parent letting her daughter have her boyfriend in her room, maybe your mom feels the same. You need to look at it from her perspective, I totally see where shes coming from.

Answer #3

your mom is worried yu may have sex in your room and she is just being very precautious . I know its unfair but thats how moms are . my mom is the same I cant even close the door when my brother sleeps in my room !

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