Ok again I have a dad thats hates me datin which he wont allow me to but even tho I do still date people and I know its bad to go behind his back but I really like boys and I really want to go on dates with um and hang out with them but I dont think my dad will trust me going on them he wont even let my mom put me on birth control pills because he thinks then im going to go have sex (which I wouldnt) but I want to be able to have a boyfriend that I could hang out with..yea I might kiss them but I wouldnt have sex with um...but how can I get my dad to trust me going on dates and hangin out with boys...? please help!!
I know what your going through b/c my dad is the same way. I'm a senior in high school and he treats me like a little kid. I'm not even allowed to go out that much with my friends and my boyfriend. Which by the way, my dad consider my boyfriend as a "friend." My dad knows very well that his not a just a friend. He just can't let me go. He's strict with me and way too protective. I'm just glad I'm graduating so I can learn from life on my own b/c he just won't let me. He never has. I don't know if he will change his ways if you sat with him and talked things out. I have and he hasn't changed a bit, but I don't know maybe your dad is different. My advice to you would just keep up with your education; when you find a good boyfriend ask him to call or visit your house so he can meet your father. But make sure you tell you boyfriend how your father is. Maybe your boyfriend will win your father over. My sort of did. If you have any more questions. Just funmail me... Hope my advice helps... Good Luck =)
to be honest, dads will be dads, most of them are very protective. the only way I can thiink of to get round it is to date guys without him knowing and if he finds out just sat to him ' you cant control my life, your restricting me from everything, how am I gna learn more about life if you what let me learn?? and if he says 'u have plenty of time to learn about life because you got your whole life ahead of u' just say to him ' wouldnt you rather I learnd early so I know more about life sooner?' and just reasure him that your not gna do anything stupid (meaning have sex or do drugs and stuff) at the age you r. and if he stil says no then jus carry on doing it without him knowing because otherwise your gna have to wait a long time and its not like he can control EVERYTHING you do is it??
hope this helps, good luck
ok well my best advice is to hide it from him untill you feel comfortable to tell him my dad got merried a few years ago to my step mom and ever sence then she has brain washed him into being a mean stricked dad.. when my sisters were my age they were aloud to go wherever whenever date dye there hair and curse but now im the youngest and my dad wont let me do anything but work with him without geting payed and I cant date but I hide it from him and hes stupid and doesnt think im that kind of girl and he wont let me dye my hair and I ask him almost everday but he always says no! and I get in trouble for bringing up that my sisters got to... well I don't know
Im in the same boat :/ my mom and dad wont let me date because "teenagers arent ready to handle emotions like that yet." I have no idea what to say to this but last case you could try the whole: if you box me in now, I might just break out someday and never come back. your driving me crazy and I need to live my life. but again...last case scenario lol.
