How can I get away from my parents?

Ok I am 13 and I feel neglected from my family…my sister is adored and I feel like I am not. I really want to move away from them. The other night I was caught smokin by them and that made them hate me even more. They feel that im the bad egg and my elder sister gets everything and anything. I have also heard that you can divorce your parents… how?

Answer #1

Hang out with your friends a lot…Try to escape to music and to your room, or find somewhere where you can be by yourself and have peace to think.

It helps me, too- parent problems like that have to be just waited out.. ikr, you just wish that you would be home alone one day and they would die in a car crash? That can’t be helped if some people hate their parents, you just have to hang in there and create your own personal bubble. Try to be different from your sister but polite to your parents. Play goody-good around them but show that your obviously different.

Answer #2

Hey, I know what that feels like, but mainly all you can do is just be good, stay away, and wait for your sister to mess up because she has to mess up really bad someday! I know that sounds bad and everything, but with my parents, my older sister was perfect, perfect grades, perfect cheerleader, perfect hair, perfect teeth, perfect outfits, etc. Then I would always try to outshine her, I had all A’s but one B+ . I couldnt get the outfits I wanted because no one would let me, my sister’s style on me was a big no-no. One day, my perfect cheerleader finally slipped. Her and my dad were constantly fighting, She started cutting herself, She then moved in with my mom. I was then the perfect child of my 3 brothers and 1 sister of that side of my family. but now im slipping… So now its my brother who;s perfect… : /

Answer #3

thank you! and I did it at a party and I didnt know they were coming!! AAARGH!! I just feel so angry with them! I really wouldnt careless if they died!! :(

Answer #4

I have the same problem at my house and it really does feel like hell.Just hang out with your friends a lot but not at your house.Or thats what I do.

And by the way, if youre going to smoke, dont do it at your house if someones there too.Doing it while people are there is not the smartest move.

Answer #5

you shoukd go to plenty of youth clubs ummm you could go a camp like a summer camp

or just join some clubs like da gb or sumfin

Answer #6

Havw you thought abpout the fact that your sister may not be doing the bad things that you are doing… meaby if you try following the rules and being somehow the good child then you might be liked too. “ the other night I was aught smiking by them and that made them hate me even more” Ofcourse they are traying to get their child to take the right path all you are doing is making their work harder and meaby they are just giving up, you are being defient… And no, you cannot, they would have to sighn a perent constent so you can live whit someone else.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #7

ok yes im not the perfect child but im not changing for my parents

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