Do you think that she should drop it and quit trying to yell at me?

I had an argument with my mom yesterday and the whole entire day she would not let the situation rest. well then she starts talking about me to my younger brother right in frount of me and I was litterly loosing my mind. we went to the flea markent and I asked if I could go to the shop right beside of the one she was at. she then says I am sorry I think that is to far in a really weird voice I think trying to embarrass me. she then practically yells something bad about me in public and I go so mad. I didnt show it though. through the car ride home she continually talks about me and finally I blow up. I said some things that I regret and I litterly lost my mind. I forgot my name and everything! I then went home and did some stupid things and it was then that she realizes (so I thought) that she hurt me really bad and that she should have let it go. well this morning it is worse! she did not forget about it and she is like mean. she talked about me once again and she was about to go crazy! well because she said that she would tell people at church about what I done I decided not to go this morning. she then yells at me to get dressed and I told her that I didnt want to go. she then blames me for her not being able to go to church! I am old enough to stay home by my self! to top it all off she says that because I caused her not to be able to go to church anymore that I get my instrument tooken away and I have to quit all the things that I am involved in at school! do you think that she should drop it and quit trying to yell at me?