I think I should just stop talking to him

well me and my brother got inside a big fight. he 19 am 15. well he was coming into the house at like (1am). and his girlfriend was waiting. and I said to her your Inmate coming. and she just came at me reckless. told me to shut the f* up. and then call me a bit. so I got up and said something. then my brother going to try to run up to me like he all big and bad. then we got into. and he kept trying to fight me. how childish. then he threw a piece of paper in my face. and start talking about how retarded I am. cause of the way I speak. which Piss me off more. then he start talking about my relationship with my girlfriend, which is a whole a lot better then his. then he went and lie to my mom. saying I the one who cause all this. which is a lie. I said 1 little joke. and she cuss me out =_=. so uncall for. I think he took it out of hand. if she tough enough to call me a bit**. she tough enough to fight.am so mad right now. I just want to let me life go ( not kill myself).I think my brother mad. cause he know ill do better then him in life. he keep telling that I drop out. ( I got exspell this year). but he the one who drop out. I just think he want to keep me down. so ill mess up in life. yes I made some mistake but who havnt?. am going back to school next year. am getting my work permit. going to find a job. he probably mad cause am doing everything better then him. he got his first job at like the age of 17 or 18. he use to skip school almost everyday. I think I should just stop talking to him. who agree?

Answer #1

I do not agree.

Answer #2

Typical sibling rivalry. Your bro’s girlfriend is a pure sadistic bit** and needs to calm down. Obviously she can’t take a joke. Your brother on the other is older so he wants to remain the dominant one. If you do better than he does, then he feels less powerful.

As for talking to him, I would avoid any contact for a few days, this’ll give him time to think what happened and to forgive. His girlfriend though, dam, she needs a good smack to put her in her place or a chill pill. Try talking to her, but not joke around.

Problems need to be solved without fighting and if it breaks out into one, just push him back, give him a good punch in the mouth and walk away, if you stay, he’ll get angry.

Answer #3

oh my god this makes me so mad. well he’s an idiot for choosing someone who is not family over his own sister. plus, you’re pretty young and he’s nearly twenty, so he should know how to act like a freakin adult.

I would probably just ignore him for a few weeks. sometimes the absence of action of any sort speaks volumes. please stay in school and prove your brother and anyone else who doubts you wrong. maybe later on you can resolve your issues. remember this: girlfriends are temporary, but family and blood–that’s forever. no one can change that no matter how much they want to. so maybe one day he’ll come around.

keep your nose to the blue. take care sweetheart ps- ignore the stupid girlfriend. she sounds like a moron and will probably be out of your life within a few months

Answer #4

I dont think you should stop talking to him but try and talk calmly to him maybe when he is alone as for his girlfrien she has to be toght a lesson becouse its your house you live there and whether she lives there or not she cnt talk to you like that is stupi an childish and also pathetic.

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