I think my dad is going to try to kick me out again

my dad has been drinking a lot lately and often tells to get out of his house and I have to go to a friends house until he sleeps it of . I know he loves me but I dont know why he keeps on doing this to him self and me… I am afriad he is going to beat me once more

Answer #1

Thats not how its supposed to be. You may love your dad, but him hitting you is not ok and its not right. Anyone hitting you is not ok and I may not know you that well, but I really dont like it. I’m not saying anything about your dad, but he shouldnt be drinking, and he should DEFINATELY NOT be hitting you. :(

Jax

Answer #2

Well honey, maybe you can talk to him about getting help for his drinking. Express your concern for his well being, and why you think it would benefit him and you that he does. And I’m afraid that all you can do with that is present it to him. He may listen, and he may not, but all you can do is try.

Jax

Answer #3

Oh dear…you made me cry a bit…but, I think that it would be best that you leave the house before it gets to that. Go to a friends house until he sleeps it off like you say. I really wouldnt want you to get hurt! And for your safety, I think that would be the best choice for now until you can figure something out long-term.

I hope you can get out of this situation before it goes further!

Jax

Answer #4

His drinking problem is NOT YOUR PROBLEM. You need to leave and stay somewhere safe until he quits or until you find a safe place to live. There is no excuse for him hitting you. You shouldn’t just take it or deal with it. You are a minor and it’s illegal for him to do this to you

Answer #5

he had quit before and things were so much better but he started all over agin .., it has gotten so bad some time I cant tell if he is drunk or not worse come to worse all he will do is hit me and I can deal with it ( it think) I mean I have before

Answer #6

I dont want my dad to go to jail I love him but some times he is difficult eh doesnt mean it when he hits me he is to drunk to rember half of the time . I am not worried about myself I am worried about him … I am afraid if he doesnt stop it is going to kill him

Answer #7

You should tell an adult you trust about what’s going on asap. Do you have a relative or family friend you can talk to? If not tell your school counselor. He can’t hit you and kick you out every time he’s drunk. It’s against the law and he can be taken to jail. Tell someone now.

Answer #8

thanx for all the support you guys are realy helping me deal with this

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