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Abstinence.

Okay, I’m a Christian without a doubt. Jesus is my savior and I’m not ashmed of that. But a lot of guys want to have sex with me, and I’m only THIRTEEN! I tell them I’m waiting. And there usual response is “Oh yeah. Me too, till like Sophomore year.” And I flat out tell them “No, I’m waiting until marriage.” After that, it seems like they don’t wanna talk to me or anything. I’ve thought about not waiting, but never really really considered it. Am I wrong for thinking about not abstaining abstinence, or telling the guys no?

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Answer #1

you need to wait until you are more mature, and in love. Sex is a tough thing and it can screw you up emotionally and physically if you do it before your time

Answer #2

Do what’s right for you - not them.

Stick to your values, and don’t let immature boys force you to do something you’re not ready for.

Answer #3

Of course there’s nothing wrong at all. Guys who tell you “no” don’t really matter anyway. You continue to wait for the right person.

Answer #4

agreed

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