Informing a friend about abstinence

that they should get all the sex they can before tieing the knot.

This one is very weird (to me), and I’ve heard a number of people have this attitude before getting married - both men & women. Thing is, if you really love somebody, and are planning on tying the knot already…then why on Earth would you go around screwing everybody else in the interim? Does that sound like the commitment, or promise, of life long love to you…?

I know that more than 70% of men cheat in a committed relationship, and more than 60% of women. So, if it’s a guy, the odds are he’ll do it sooner or later…and if this is the behavior in advance, do you seriously think that the behavior will change following the ceremony? Odds are, no.

And…imagine how they’re fiance must feel, if they knew that their future spouse was humping everything in sight like a stray dog - they’d be upset, and for a good reason! I’d mention that to your friend, in a nice way, and honestly ask how their fiance would feel, if they knew. I’ve been married six plus years myself, and committed to the same person for almost nine, as long as we’ve been living together & dating, well in advance of the marriage.

Good luck with your friend.

~thedude.