would it be wise to go see a therapist or councilor?

okay thanks

If you feel that you need to, then go and see one. There is nothing wrong with it. They help you work through your issues and to cope with things. I mean I saw one for a few years ago because I wasn’t coping with university and it helped me a lot.

the problem is i dont no if ill be able to talk - i went to the doctors a week ago, and it was at a family planning clinic, so they were really nice, but yeah the doctor was being friendly and was just asked if i was stressed and how school was.. and i just started crying and i couldnt talk and i couldnt stop.

:/ well dear,i suffer from driving anixity. You mentioned how your sis died and everything. I have crazy dreams about dying in car accidents. I haven’t ever lost someone and i haven’t been in major car accidents so i have no idea why i’m so scared to drive. :/ i’ve been used by guys too and life can really throw some sh*t at me. :/ i think it would be wise for you to see a therapist or atleast talk to someone about things to get them off your chest! I’m a good listener and like to be useful,so if you ever want to explain more,feel free to funmail me. —Holding in pain and sadness only ends up making it worse. –I used to get beat up in school and made fun of a lot. I know how it is. Just don’t let people bring you down. A lot of the time,when people make fun of others it’s because they can’t stand themselves so they attack others so they feel like they have power over another person. And if you take the beating,you are just giving them what they want. <33

It’s ok to cry. It’s ok to break down. I’ve sat with a teen for 2 hours while she cried. Sometimes you gotta cry. I’m guessing you’ve never really dealt with the pain of all of this, and so it seems really overwhelming right now. I really think you should go in and talk to someone. You’ll work on things, slowly. Healing takes time, and as you trust your therapist, you’ll find it easier to allow yourself to go to really hurtful places and your therapist will help you heal all that stuff. And you’re not going to cry forever. And if you are unable to get through the session (say for several sessions), therapists are trained to redirect and teach you how to calm yourself down. It isnt like going to a friend (or even a doctor who has limited psychiatric training).

yes. Although if you don’t feel like seeing a counselor you can also talk to any trusted family or friends that wouldn’t judge u or make fun of u and would support you. good luck!

thhankyou i will email you, just busy dealing with my bf.

yeah, thankyou, i just dont really wanna tell my mum, because she thinks everything is fine. she doesnt understand why i have any reason to be upset, but i cant tell her ecause its really personal and i know she would go off

and I’d you can make comments like that so you would not be afraid to some some nude pictures of your self right?

excuse me?

kai ^_^