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Would you go back to a cheater?

Just a survey to see what people would do if their significant other cheated.

So, I got up the guts to tell my friend her boyfriend cheated on her. He’s great at hiding it because he always talks to her, sends her presents, and is planning to go see her over spring break. They have a long distance relationship…

So my question is, even if this guy seemed super thoughtful and nice, but he cheated (had sex in this case), would you go back? And how do I make sure she doesnt?

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Answer #1

I definitley wouldn’t go back to him. Cheaters are selfish!! To make sure your friend doesn’t go back to him, explain to her that he did something HORRIBLE. Since she’s your friend, tell her you’re trying to keep her safe.

Answer #2

Hell no…cheaters are selfish people, they don’t care who they hurt or how they hurt them. Then when the other person finds out they actually try to blame it on them…well if you would go down on me more I wouldn’t of had to go somewhere else…What the Fck is that? A friend of mine’s husband cheated on her and he actually had the nerve to say “I didn’t think it would matter since you didn’t know”. She was like yeah it mattered that your dck was in someone else. Then she kicked his nasty *ss out and never let him back (way to go girl). BTW he lived in his car for about 2 months…lol.

Why would I ever want to be with someone like that?

Answer #3

Not at all. I dont care how much the guy says that he loves her, cares about her, etc. He wasn’t thinking about all that when he didn’t keep his dick in his pants. To me that is the ultimate in dis-respect, and I wouldn’t stand for it at all. If you love someone, you dont cheat, simple as that.

Answer #4

no, I wouldn’t. but you can’t make her decisions for her. tell her what you think is best, and comfort her when needed- encourage her- but dont force her not to.

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