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Why would my girlfriend stop/slow her sexual attraction to me?

My girfriend of 3 years has been for the past few months distant with me everytime we get close to have sex. She’ll joke and have fun with the idea but when it gets close to being intemite(sp?) or when I take her up on the joke she switches gears and acts like I’m pressuring her. I ask the questions but all I get is “I don’t know” or “its nothing…nevermind”. Any idea’s on why/how I can turn this around back to when we were having the same fun sexually or not?

NOTE: for the record I have been romantic in the past and present but lately I have been having a hard time finding an maintaining a steady job because of the economic times…so my romantic moments aren’t that grand or expensive.

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Answer #1

Don’t listen to toadaly. There’s many reasons she might not want to anymore. Find out whats happening in her persinal life, anything that may cause stress or something. If she’s anything like I am, she may just be feeling stronger feelings than she did before, and it might scare her. She might have for some reason became more concious of the risk of pregnancy, she may have switched birth control methods, or had a pregnancy scare that she didn’t tell you about, or some of her friends may have become pregnant. If she hasn’t broken up with you, or stopped other things like kissing and makeing out, chances are she isn’t interested in anyone else

Answer #2

I’m sorry to have to tell you this, but she’s probably interested in someone else.

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