How I can I stop it from hurting when I finger my girlfriend?

Me and my girlfriend have been fooling around for a while now and I used to finger her a lot she loved it. Now we try doing it and it hurts again even thou shes really wet she still says it hurts. Why does I suddenly hurt? Im scared about one why that hurts ad 2 the fact we are planning on loosing our v’s next month (both old enough, been together a long time, both don’t believe in god or the bible-so pleas no you shouldn’t have sex or wait till marriage because tbh I don’t want my girlfriend to remember her wedding day as the day she had a lot of pain) What is the best way to help her with the pain? Which position? Push hard to break it quick or slow and gentle to slowly rip it? I know lots of foreplay I plan on licking her out a lot before hand (along with it relaxing her its her fav and gets her really wet.

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try licking and sucking on her nipples…that gets a girl going a lot and makes her very VERY wet. make sure she’s comfortable, play light music or some of her favourite slow songs in the background…maybe even light a candle or two to help her relax a little. go slow…deffinetly not hard…that would cause extreme pain and she probably wouldnt want to continue. try giving her soft gentle kisses on the forhead while having sex it will help her relise that your doing it to make her happy. perhaps the pain is from you going to far in, or maybe your going to rough…just finger her gently and the wetter she getts try going a little rougher…and if it dont bother her anymore then go the way she use to like it.

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