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Why does it hurt my girlfriend?

Why does it hurt my girlfriend when we start to have sex? She is in so much pain when I put it in that it kinda kills the mood. She is wet and everything and I try to finger her until she practically begs me to start and when I put it in I can see her in a lot of pain for about two minutes so I take it reallyyy slow until it stops hurting her. It is starting to get kinda annoying because sometime we even have to completely stop. I thought she would be use to it by now, we have been having sex once a week for the past 3 months. Any advice???

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Foreplay is important. So making sure she is wet and fingering her is doing the right thing. You might also want to try oral sex or stimulating her clitoris not just her vagina. This can really excite a woman and help her relax. Another trick is once she is wet, try fingering her with two fingers or more. This will help her relax and be more ready for you. Last but not least, let her go on top so she can decide how fast and how deep she can take at the start. Try different positions so she can choose which hurts her less. Don’t be annoyed about her feeling a bit uncomfortable just be understanding that it takes her time to relax. The best lover is attentive to the other persons needs before their own.

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