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Why is she copying me?

I have my own dance school and well its preety good. Girls and boys love it and never skip lessons but a month ago a new girl came to my school. So she copies me in everything-she buys cloth that I wear, she made hairstyle just like mine, acts just like me, talks in “my own style” andnow she is even dating my ex. AND I HATE IT!! what should I do with it?

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Answer #1

first of all SMILE! yes smile, thats because your an inspiration to someone- not many peopel get to be a role model or so for others!! lol second I bet you shes jealous because of your great natural beauty and likes your style… third honestly thou it does get pretty annoyin I know watcah mean so lets say she has no life! lol and tell her to quit copying u. in a very nice gentle way tell her some thigns arent made for other peopel that she shouldnt trying feeling comfortable in her own skin.. you know? so good luck! or I like the top one just trick her mind this is a good test (example= do you know lady gaga? then she answers yes ask her what do you think of her and if shes asks you tell me first INSIST on lettin her answer then shell ask you and reply the OPPOSITE and try to watch her body language or see if she changes her answer.) you could do this trick on other things like clothes…

go0d luck!! :)

Answer #2

HaHaHa really HaHa, I wish I were you. who hates to be an idol, Dina ?!!! it seems you hate her for one reason you know what I mean :)

I see that everybody has the liberty to do anything as long as he/she doesn’t hurt anyone … physically :) …

But if you are really annoyed Just go to her and try to make her your friend Just to get closer to her mind and know how she thinks.!!

Answer #3

Sounds like you pretty much have everything that she wants or wishes to be. I know its annoying you I can tell. People can tell I’m sure and probably notice what’s going on. Call her out on it you want, but keep in mind you can kill a person with kindness when you do it.

There’s something special about everyone, she just hasn’t found what it is about her so she tries to be you from what it sounds like. Alway remember though, NOBODY can be YOU, no matter how hard they try.

Answer #4

Well you should be flattered, she probably wants to be like you. But ya, I bet it’s annoying! You could bring it up with her (nicely), think of a list of things you like about the way she is when she isn’t copying you, stuff you like about her own personality and looks. Then hopefully she will stop trying to be like you :)

Answer #5

First you could try telling her to back off (nicely) and if that doesn’t work then try to get new clothes and make her jealous…mind games(:

Answer #6

I dont hate HER I hate the way she acts.

and I really dont see anything funny about this.

Answer #7

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