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why is everyones life different?

some people are dealt a good hand while others have to live a unhappy life for some unexplainable mystical reason,is it karma or something out of our hands,who or what controls how much happiness we have in our lives?I’ve seen people who are realy nasty or mean and have kids a nice place and everthing they want and as much love as they want but I’ve seen people who deserve to have all that but dont seem to have it in their lives or seem to be denied of it,things are working back to front

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Answer #1

some people are dealt a good hand “perhaps for awhile but not always forever”

while others have to live a unhappy life for some unexplainable mystical reason, “not mystical, bad things happen to everyone, some more than others, why? that’s how the universe is constructed, can’t change that.”

is it karma or something out of our hands,who or what controls how much happiness we have in our lives? “there are many belief systems, christianity, hinduism, etc, but basically you control what you can control, and the rest is the universe just plowing along. Ask the ant, who’s not hurting anyone and yet every day you step on some innocent ant! How is that fair? You should stop walking around!”

I’ve seen people who are realy nasty or mean and have kids a nice place and everthing they want and as much love as they want but I’ve seen people who deserve to have all that but dont seem to have it in their lives or seem to be denied of it,things are working back to front

Read Eclesiates in the BIble, not as a religious text, but just as a philosophical text, and read several different versions. It’s very zen. Life is.

Be here now. Don’t spend your time worrying about what you can’t control. Watch the Peter Seller’s move, “Being there”

You can make life, or your internal life very complicated and die of heart disease, or love life because it is life and it’s each moment of you life you need to make good, not everyone else’s.

Yes, evil people succeed. So do good people. Be good.

Answer #2

God allows the rain to fall upon the weeds and the harvest.

In perspective, a good life and a bad life are only considered so because the contrast to one another. Beauty is found in contrast.

The promise in Christianity is that having a good life, you will be rewarded in the afterlife, not so much as rewards on earth. Satan got a good hold on this earth write now.

Answer #3

Why is everyones life different?

The simplest explanation of Chaos Theory… because sh#t happens.

Good things happen to good people Good things happen to bad people Bad things happen to good people Bad things happen to bad people

In short… things just happen.

I would find it far more strange if everyone’s lives were the SAME.

Answer #4

It’s all just a bunch of random stuff that happens. I would tend to add that it’s what you make of it, but really, what you make of it depends on a combination of genetics and environment, which are both also just a bunch of random stuff that happens.

Answer #5

I believe what you are saying is that “ Some people deserve what they dont have or more then what they do have and others who have dont deserve as much as they have “ I cant really tell you who is responsable for that..,, It could be that There Parents or Gurdians don’t have a clue of what they are doing in there life or they might think that spoiling a child or teen as such would make a better family Relationship.., and those who dont spoil there child or teen are tring to get across to a point where thee child or teen has found that life will be rough and you can’t get every little thing that you want you have to work hard, have Responsability.

Sorry if this is no help to your Question! :)

Answer #6

People are raised by there parents and surroundings so how they act or look reflects there parents and sometimes parents dont care or they do care thats why lifes are different some come from poor or rich its just that no one is perfect

Answer #7

it’s not “some mystical reason”. Some people make good decisions and some make poor decisions. That’s all there is to it.

Answer #8

It is all luck. You are either the guy who owns the bridge or the guy who lives under it.

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