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Why did he leave me?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a month now I just recently lost my virginity to him. He seems to really like me because even came to see me on an empty tank of gas…Well the other day he was over at my house and we wanted to have sex. My little brothers kept peeking and opening the door but they eventually stopped. Well we started kissing and stuff and then he said he couldn’t do it but then he tried again and we started to actually do it but then he said again that he couldn’t do it. He got a phone call and started to leave and I tried to ask him what was wrong but he wouldn’t answer me and I asked him if he was going to call, he said yeah but I was still confused on to why he was just bolting like that and then I called him later on to see if he was okay and he said he was cool and he asked if I was crying and I told him no and he didnt really say much else and I haven’t heard from him but I’m just confused on why he just left like that…I don’t think he’s cheating though but what else could be the reason…do you have any ideas???

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Awkwardness.

I used to have this problem with an ex girlfriend, it was just awkward and I didn’t want to do it, but I figure I’m one of those guys that was looking for love, not lust. So I was sort of disgusted with the fact all she wanted was sex (sounds wrong coming from a guy right?) and sometimes I just felt sick to my stomach. Luckily I finally found the perfect girl, my true love as we call it, and I have no awkwardness with her, not much I wouldn’t do if she just asked me.

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