Here is the question, should I leave her?

To answer this the best you can, I will put up the details. Me and my girl met on valentines day, ten years ago. It will be eleven years on valintines day 2010. We were girlfriend and boyfriend way back then when we were only seven and eight years old. We split up when I was ten and now that I’m 18 she found me again and we have been dating for about six months. We don’t fight, we don’t yell. We just don’t see enough of eachother. She lives in south carolina and I live in north carolina. Takes about an hour drive. Heres the thing. I don’t have a license, and my jeep don’t have the title or anything. I’m disabled and my dumb attorney is lazy and wont get it started. I have scoliosis, asthma, high blood pressure, very stressed, and who knows what else. My mom drives us back and forth on weekends and I only see her once a week, and we talk every single day, all day that we possibly can.

Here is the question, should I leave her? She said when she gets out of school, she would move in with me, and by the way, we are both still virgins. We decided to wait at least till she was 18. She is seventeen right now. Just on a personal note, I believe sex is nothing but pleasure in a relationship. Ok since that was said, should I leave her?

Even if you all answer this, I may only take it under advisment. Cause I’m not totally sure if I’ll leave her. I just needed opinions.

Answer #1

wether you leave her is up to you if you want to be with her, obviously dont leave her if you dont, think about it you should also tell her that would belive sex is only for pleasure, as its likley she would see it differently (say as a way to be more intimate with each other or take the relatioship to the next level)

Answer #2

Why would you leave her if you love her? And she said she wants to move in with you soon. You see each other once a week imagine once a month and that should help you see thats enough time. But if you love someone you would wait for them forever even if its over something as dumb as sex. Its just sex. Two hours of pleasure at tops compared to being with the right girl/guy for a lifetime. You pick But My advice is dont leave her if you like her and be sweet to her and wait until your both ready.

Answer #3

I’m not leaving her, I decided not too

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