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What to do with a exfriend that copies me!?

We are in 8th grade now an me and this girl use to be best friends! Then she started getting on my nerves and 4 half a yr we would have fights everyweeked no joke. We finally had the last fight and it was over!it was always because she was copying me mostly.when we were friends I would tell her lots of things when we texted (which was all the time). she knows everything I like ,what I wanna do and what im obsessed with! So heres the problem: While friends I told her I wanted to collect classic disney shirts,so I get sum…we arent friends now so she goes out and buys classic disney shirts! I tell her how much demi lovato …so now all over a social site she says how she luvs her and wants her hair cut I told her about this musical I was obbsessed with… Shes obbsessed now I told her I wanted a hollywood celeb theme birthday party…she tells her friend to have one on the same theme! Her friend is now gonna have a hollywood celeb bday! -I act like I never notice the shirts she wears or how much she luvs this stuff but shes taking my style! Oh yeah and now shes taking singing classes at the place I do -_-

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Answer #1

no but she tries to get people to think that its her thing and not mine and that im just going off on her. it just makes me seem like a followwer. and we are never gonna b friends again I can tell you that.the thing is we arent friends and she still copies me

Answer #2

hun, when she coppied you when you were friends, that was a sign of good friends. she wanted to be more like you, and that should be a compliment for you. obviously she looked up to you enough to copy you. I do admit it is a bit childish of her. but at your guys’s age you are still learning to look up to people. and she was looking up to you. I would try and be friends with her again. seems to me like if you two where good friends, and mostly you just left eachother cause of dumb arguments it actually wasnt necessary. fights are healthy and necessary in relationships. they help it grow stronger. take my advice. :)

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