What do you think was he using me or was he physically attracted?

If you don’t want what he is doing to you, then you tell him calmly and sternly “NO.” As you would with a dog. Because sometimes that’s what a guy needs to understand what he is doing is wrong. To be treated like a dog. If he can’t respect you, then leave him. He is no good.

He may be. Many boys this age are very very very horny with hormones and everything they see. He may say he doesn’t want sex, but his body certainly is saying yes I want sex. At this age, many boys just want sex and many, not all, don’t even think about having a good relationship. If he notices that you are scared and isn’t comfortable with what he is doing he should stop. Talk to him, tell him you are scared and not comfortable, discuss it with him. Don’t let him do anything you don’t want. Make sure he isn’t trying use you before you give him anything, a lot of girls get in a lot of emotional and physical trouble because of this.

I’ve recently learned that all most guys want is s3x. and thats normal for a 16 year old boy to want s3x. he might of tried doing it wit you since your only 13. he probably thought he could take advantage of u. but dont give into him until your absolutley sure hes not using you because they will do a lot to get a one night stand.