Is it shallow that we just naturally look for an attractive opposite?

Everyone is a package deal. Many of the things we consider attractive in fact are indicators of being a good catch. A healthy weight indicates endurance and energy to meet the demands of a relationship; muscles on men indicate high testosterone while curves on women indicate high estrogen and fertility. A symmetric face indicates that someone hasn’t had to deal with a lot of stress or injury. Being tall indicates that someone was well fed during their formative years and comes from a resourceful family. Of course there are lots of other factors in being a good catch. Being educated, successful, responsiveness to your partner’s needs, a sense of humor, having comparable worldviews, a sense of humor, etc. all factor into the package.

no, we are all automatically to look at somthing we are attracted to it’s a natural normal thing

I personally think it’s natural. It’s hard to have a relationship with someone your not attracted to physically, and emotionally. (:

Why do you think the fishing industry…created so many bright and shiny lures that catch the eye? It’s human nature…we gravitate to what initially attracts. But after you’ve bought and tried using your “precious” fishing lure you might find it doesn’t meet your expectations. I’ve met and been attracted to many so called “beautiful people” that as soon as they open their mouth get uglier by the minute. And I’ve met those who don’t stand out in a crowd who as they open their mouth immediately begin to shine.

Think about an old couple thats still together. I will bet good money that they still think they are physically attracted to each other haha

Funny you mentioned old couples. Just a few days ago there was an article on MSN about a couple married 72 years, who died holding hands. It’s a touching story here is the link http://funadvice.com/r/15fqat1b394

oh thanx :)

No way! it is human nature

No, because if you’re unattracted to your other then you won’t want to have a relationship with them.