Do you think hes using me?

Okay so I’ve been hanging out with some guy hes 3 years older then me Im 15 and im pretty mature for my age. So we kicked it and we got along so well and then he did the sweetest Thing ever! He just kissed me on my cheeck! :d [and hes hott!] So he said me “so wats up?” I just looked at him and giggled And I so I started to kissing him [making out] then we stop after a while Then we talked and he started kissing my cheek. Then we started going at it again ,we kissed, then we were dry humpingg And then all of a sudden he got a boner!! Ahah I didnt mind I was still kissing him So I started nimbling on hes lip [he loved that] then he started to grab My butt then me psy [but I still had my jeans on. So we stop again and he grabbed me by the waist and we were just Cuddling and he was rubbing my waist with hes fingers[ felt soo good] Then he turned and gave me a very slow sexy kiss[ like he meant it from the heart] Then he started playing with my hand[ I thought that was soo cute when he was doing it] . Then he started trying to rub my puy but I still had my jeans on so he was trying to lie me down slowly then he unbuttoned my pants and then quickly I told he “just rub it” because I didnt want hes fingers in there so he started to and the whole time he never stopped kissing me theni started getting crazy horny and I started to moan And stuff [it felt sooo good] then gentle he asked me if he can finger me. I said “no’ And he respected that. Then he was rubbing it for a while. Then we talked ,laughed,and I went home. He told me to call him or txt

And hes been texting me everyday Asking me how my days going and what im doing He doesnt ask dirtyy things or anything And hes always asking me “so when am I going to see yyou again” Were going to hang out soon but I just wanted to see what you think of This is he:

-using me? -is he intersated?

Tell me what you think thank you<3

Answer #1

I think it’s too early to tell if hes using you. I mean me and my girlfriend took a few months 2 get 2 that stage 4 many reasons that I don’t want to have 2 get in2. but people are different so meet up again and see if he tries to go further without asking u. if he doesnt then hes probably interested.

Answer #2

I think he’s interested. He texts you and calls you right? so, as of now, I think he’s really interested. If he was using you, he would’ve done it already.

Answer #3

your and IDIOT im not saying your stupid but im saying your making a very very bad choice. if you like this guy then get to know him through your mouth and I DONT mean kissing I mean talk to him.he may not be using you but it seems like both of yall are in it for the wrong reasons…pleasure!!!

Answer #4

I really think he is interested because if he tried at first and you said no and he is still textin and callin you he in interested thats just me but the real question is do you like him because he is tottaly into you

Answer #5

What you did, is NOT something a mature girl would do! How do you expect to know if a guy is using you when you let him do the things he did? He obviously doesnt respect you, or he wouldnt have gone any farther than kissing you on the cheek! I’m sorry, but when a girl is as easy with a guy as you were with him, you are basically setting yourself up to be used! That kind of behavior isnt going to make a guy fall for you, make him like you more, OR commit to you. Now that he knows how easy you are, he will try and go as far as he can the next time! NEVER do anything physical with a guy just because you like him without being in a commited relationship. If a guy isnt using you, he wouldnt have done all the things this guy did to you!!

In my opinion, he doesnt like you in the right way!

Answer #6

may be but way would you do what you did

Answer #7

Ive been in exactly the same postion… and it turned out he wasnt and now he loves me.. so you litterally just gotta keep going with it.. just always member not to get too attached just incase.. thats where i went wrong. x good luck x

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