My mum and I are kind of close but she doesnt trust me

If your Mother will not talk to you and then even if she does some times the best way to get her to ACTUALLY LISTEN is through writting. Letters are great. You can gt her a flower or some candy or both an underneath leave a envalope with a detailed letter.

I sujest that you start with that you love her and want to be close to her and that you NEED there to be trust between eachother. tell her how you are feeling and that she does not need to shout and that she hurts your feels and what she says that hurts or does… start off slow tell her you will keep the door open. Let her know that even if you were to have sex you wouldnt do it with her home ( well might want to leave that out.) I would need more information to create a better idea of who your mOther is and what would work best to help her understand however letters are great. Write near the end that you would like her to read it a few time and then think and or pray about it ( if your christian) and then talk to you in private about it tell her you do not want her to be mad and that you want her to understand were you are coming from and you want to understand her.

It will save snapping and what not that could happen durring talks.

Now when you to do talk no matter what she SAYS or HOW she SAYS it do NOT YELL, GET ANGERY OR BE DISRESPECTFUL… Let her decide and have the final say. In the end tell her alright an that you lvoe her and respect her…even if in the end you do not agree with her. She will be both shocked and confussed if she did not agree with you, It will come off as an act of maturity. Also if you have any chours do them with out being asked if she ask you or tells you to do it do it tell her you love her. Hug her more and show interest in wantting to hear her and spend tim,e with her.

Umm I would like to really help you and her work through this and to have a better relationship really.

I worked as a youth concelar and have done tons of training and some schooling for this type of thing. SO I have some exsperiene also I have had a tough life. But as long as your both willing you could have a wonderful relationship and a trust that is unique and fullfilling my e-mail is faolanblood@ygmail.com

Good lick