Why doesnt my mum love me

My mum has never loved me. For 12 years I’ve known that. I eman until I was one I couldnt understand anything. I know my dad loves me and thats why I live with him. My mum could never relate to me. When I was ill she would leave . She would shout scream and throw things. She only was nice to me if someone was there. So I moved in with my dad but she called me names and tried to kick the door down. She would scream at me. It wasnt nice/ I dont want to go into detail though.

But shes always been able to write a letter to me. But she doesnt

All I want to know is why doesnt she lvoe me. Why does she hate me so much. Wtf did I do to her to make her hate me so much because I cant work it out. I was a good kid. I was to afraid to not be. So why cant my mum love me?

Answer #1

you were an accident lol

Answer #2

hey that is so sad. :( anyway maybe she have her own reasons for doing that to you and I don’t know what exactly it is. all I can say is that, PROVE HER WRONG I mean give her the opposites. if she makes you feel unloved, then make her feel that you really love and need her as your mum. hopefully she would realize in the end what she did to you. okay? pray always that it will come soon. take care and God bless :D

Answer #3

Hi! First, what the young lady said above is true, and good advice. There are hundreds of possibilities as to why this is happening. I am not saying any of these are your particular case, just possible. She may blame you for breaking up her marriage. Maybe everything was going good until she got pregnant. Another possibilty is that you were the result of her being unfaithful, and she hates the reminder. Maybe your birth was so traumatic to her that it threw things out of balance for her. It could be she has some mental illness. It could be she is jealous that you choose to live with your dad instead of her. There are so many other reasons that may be the cause, but what that young lady said above is true. No matter how she treats you, always be loving, positive, encouraging, gentle, and consistant. Even tell her in one of her rages, “You can hate me all you want mom, but I’m going to love you regardless.” That will drive her nuts, and hopefully she will start thinking about what she is doing. Good Luck! Don

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