Well, im single after a year..

You cant make someone to be your girlfriend neither can you make them change if they´re not willing to. Sorry, but I think she just isn´t the girl for you. If she really wanted to have a relationship with you, she would at least try a little and see the situation from your point of you..

And about your friends.. well, they´re just being jerks

Just take a break for a while. Soon your “love” with Talya will faid and that new girl will probably take the place. If you’re really not ready for a relationship with that other girl, just be friends and get to know eachother a little more. If you’re not ready to have sex with her, then don’t. I’m 14 as well and my boyfriend wants to have sex and I told him I wasn’t ready, he completely understood. I don’t know about that other girl, but she’ll probably understand.

Talya sounds like the jealous type. She’s probably also trying to make you jealous. I do highly agree that Oliver Sykes is very “hot”. But like she’s ever going to get a chance with him. Just don’t worry about it. She shouldn’t get mad that you think a famous chick is hot because you’re never going to get her. I’m sorry but she just doesn’t sound right for you if she really treats you like sh*t most of the time.

wow sounds complicated.

well I personally wouldnt hook up with the other person if you dont care about her. I would find that disrespectful to her feelings, karol’s.

sounds like you just need to point out that talya is being kind of a hypocrite. if she cant see that, then she doesnt sound very mature or willing to accept that she will be wrong sometimes. but first be a man and apologize for being a jerk first…that will get her off the defensive. This shows that you are willing to admit when you are wrong too.

spats are normal..even if they are about stupid things…

Thanks a lot to both of you. Means a lot.

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