Do I still have to provide for my child if I don't want to keep it?

Im sorry to say but YES. Not to sound mean but you thought that you were mature enough to have sex and now if she is pregnant then you will be responsible for helping her raise it. if she truelly thinks that she might be you should take her to a clinic and have the test done there,,, and go with her. she didnt get pregnant by herself so the man thing to do is atleast that. maybe she wont be but if she is then the 2 of you will need to sit down and discuss the child issues like adults. please if she is its better that you inform your parents asap so that maybe they can talk to the 2 of you and give you some advise. that might sound heard to do but truthly is the best cause they will only try to help you the best they can.. but legally you will have to provide for that child untill its 18 years of age… the lesson.. think a lot be for you get into bed,, ALWAYS wear a condom ALWAYS,, but wish the best for you

im not going to ridicruel you like everyone eles but I just would like to let you know that im a 15 year old girl and im as scard as your girlfriend right now because I went to a party and got tooken advantage of and the guy say I better get an abortion because he wont help me at all what he doesnt know it that I can send his dumb as to jail !!! he 18 and well that would be rape sooo im just saying think about it your making her hurt really bad and that poor child deserves to have a daddy around who can at least say hes trying!!! kattey

iF yOU DECiDED TO HAVE SEX WiTH NO CONDOM AND SHE ENDS UP PREGNANT THEN yOU SHOULD BE A MAN AND TAKE CARE OF yOUR SEED. WHy WOULDNT yOU WANT TO TAKE CARE OF SOMETHiNG THAT BELONGS TOO yOU? GUyS LiKE THiS ALWAyS HAVE EXCUSES ABOUT MONEy AND NOT BEiNG ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THE KiDS THEy BRiNG iN THE WORLD. MAN UP FOR yOUR ACTiONS.

it takes two to tango, you didnt have a problem with that. but if she files on you your screwed. you dont pay they will find you and take your licence, and put you in jail point blank. you cant hide they will always find you. by what you sayed, that baby didnt do nothing wrong. think of that next time you want to get a piece of as-, and I hope she gets ya, people like you make farthers like me look bad,thats why the courts do what they do

well, it’s your choice to be in the child’s life or not! but… you will, however, have to pay! she’ll put you on child support and the state will take a big chunk of your money every month and mail and nice check to her home until the baby turns 18! sorry!

Keep it in your pants next time or put a thing on the end of it !!! Its sooo easy for a man to walk away from their children and the girl is left to pick up the pieces,it so maddens me that they can do this, to you it was prob just sex but you have now created a life and how you can walk away from this fk knows, the poor child didunt ask to be born,you need to grow the fk up!!!

oh yeah…lol haha this is so funny. Yep, you made your bed now lie in it. Its so funny that just because you dont want it you want to bail. Typical. Guess what??? you will be paying for 18 years…wooohooo…I hope that sex was fun!!

Next time be an man and say “no glove, no love”. Really which is better, telling your friends that you did everything but have sex or having to get a 2nd job and not having time to chill with them in the first place?

your a sick FUk. you made her pregnant and you want to leave her?!?!? your the kindof guy I HATE. you need to grow the FUK up and take care of YOUR child. wear a condom next time. if you cant provide for the child, o well, get a job. its your kid you cant leave your girlfriend. you a sick mofo who needs to keep his dik in his pants. you screwed up big time. your a bastard and if you leave ull regret it for your whole life.

yes, kimpippin!! I like your answer. dude you need to learn to be a man, it often times isn’t that we make mistakes- it is what we choose to do to fix it. it maddens me as well that SOME of my fellow males can be so immature sometimes. unfortuantely, you don’t have to be a man to be able to create a life, or to have sex for that matter. TIME TO MAN UP BUDDY- DO THE RIGHT THING, YOU OBVIOUSLY AREN’T READY FOR SEX, I WOULD LOCK THAT SUCKER UP. AND GET A JOB- YOU NOW HAVE A CHILD ON THE WAY, A BIG RESPONSIBILITY, WHETHER YOU WANT TO BE A PART OF ITS LIFE OR NOT.

GOOD LUCK.

well this is a sticky situation… Ultimately it is her decision.. if she does keep the baby and she agrees you can sign over your parental rights which basically means you are giving up your right as the childs father and you would not be financially responsible… she does have to agree to this though… also before you do anything drastic just think about it… wouldnt want you to regret it later in your life

well first of all… you dont have to be in its life. but legally you have to pay for it no matter what!!! oh and abortions and hurting her enough to misscarrage is retarded! that is a living being inside of her . just tell her you want nothing to do with it and send you the bill every month … cause most women will not give up there babys for the world

you do have to pay for it, and you should be in its life, because if not you are going to cause your child phsycological problems in the future of not having a father in its life. I don’t know why when guys get girls pregnant, they get to leave and never have to think about it, and then the girl has to live with it forever, “it takes two to tango”

next time use your brain and use a condom!

Cut the damn thing off would ya!!! you disgust me big time!!!

yea you screwed her you get to take the responsibilaty oh and trust me kids are exspensive…

you should have thought about that before you had sex.

This is not a pet! This is going to be a human being! You will provide … or you will be in jail.

If you didn’t want to support it, that don’t have sex!