Should I still want him.

My boyfriend broke up with me right before our 1 year ann. He told me that he wasn’t himself for awhile and that he wanted to be on his own. He is a senior in high school and I am in college. We told each other that we loved each other and we even talked about getting married down the road. Well I find out that he already likes someone new and I don’t know what to do. I mean we had sex and now it is just so hard to get over him, becasue what we did. I still love him and want to be with him so badly, but I don’t know how he feels, because he won’t tell me. My friends tell me that he is a different person now, that he acts stupider and stuff. So, I don’t know if I should dump him and never give him time again, or should I just wait move on, but still have hope with him and our future?

Answer #1

sweet heart, you need to move on and find a guy who is more mature, if there is one thing you should have learnt here is that all high school guys are immature and they take time to grow up, unfortunately a long time, look not trying to be a prick but he got what he wanted, hit and run, look unfortunately guys will say anything to get into women’s pants, but its not like i don’t have friends who were high school sweethearts who got married and are happy, but honestly i’d move on and show him that ur over him, and plz plz plz once you do that don’t go back to him no matter how much he says he’s changed, i’ve been giving relationship advice to all of my friends since 9th grade, serious advise to my older cousins and trust me I have only had one person who it didn’t work out for, and to make it up I helped him get with the girl he is married to right now and are expecting their first child…….lemme know if you wanna know more or want me to answer specifics.

hope this helps

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