would you still lve your child?

Yes I would. The more you tell her that you don’t want her doing it and the more you try and punish her the more she will lie. I have a very open relation ship with my mom and dad and even my grandparents. Most my friends have children and thats because they couldn’t talk to there parents or someone close because they couldn’t trust that they would be understanding. Now I’m not saying that if she 13 she should be doing that stuff. But I have to be honest I am 17 and when I started having sex my mom and dad both had the “talk” with me and I trusted there opinion and I respected there wishes. I will always take what they say into consideration because they have always listened to me and talked to me about things they could blow up on me about. Now smoking pot wont last forever and drinking is just a stage that teens go through if she is pregnant. I don’t know what els to say but your to late. but remember to sit her down and talk to her. let her now you are there to listen and help her through the hard times she has and not to hind anything from you. Don’t blow up and scream that just makes things worse.