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What should I do, my boyfriend cheated on me and I still want to b with him?

We have been together for 2 years and he was always such a loving and caring person. Until recently he started changing, he started to go out more with people that are no good. He told me he had cheated on me twice. He had sex with one girl and madeout with another girl; and told me he doesnt regret what he did; its like hes heartless. He is going to the military in June and I think he wants to enjoy his freedom and do what he wants before he leaves. I still love him and I still want to be with him, he tells me he loves me and still calls me babe or baby sometimes. And I ask him to not mess around with any other girls anymore and he says “we’ll see what happens” or “I dont plan to” and what I think he means by that is if it happens it happens im not gonna stop. We had a great relationship and I dont know why hes messing things up like that. I dont know what to do…

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Answer #1

If your seriously going to be with him through-out all that bullshit he’s put you through then you must be very stupid, cause he obviously doesn’t care about your feelings. I know you love him, but he should have more respect for you and not treat you the way he did. Cause what he did was fkn’ skandolous.

Answer #2

Girly, you have to leave him..from all the things he has told you, he’s basically trying to tell you he doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship. And it’s obvious he does not care about your feelings if he says, “We’ll see what happens” after you tell him to stop messing around with other girls. You need to move on because things are not goNa get better, he won’t change.. You can definitely find someone who will truly care about you. No girl deserves a guy who is, as you said, heartless. You’ll be fine and things will be okay..eventually, you will move on, and you should because it’s obvious that he already has.

Answer #3

EA-SY! ditch him, girlfriend! dump him! ditch! he’s no good for you. there are PLENTY of guys out there, and cheating isn’t acceptable, so…dump him! hang out with your girlfriends to forget about the heartless jerk! (sorry, I know you like him, but he is a jerk)

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