I want a child

im 16 and I want a child , but I dont want 2 have sex, wht should I do? x

Answer #1

wish really hard?

Answer #2

ok well you kind of need to have sex to have a child.. but the best thing to do is just wait until you find that special someone to enjoy everything with. I got pregnant when I was 16, and now my little monster is 1 1/2years old. and time goes so fast and I only had very little income and a lot of support. And also it is most important if the father is ready to. hope it all goes well.

Answer #3

wait til youve gotten your life together and you really know what you want in life…you should babysit a young child and see how they really are because having a baby is a life changing decision…you cant hang out with you friends and you have someone you needs you 24/7 and you will never sleep a full for almost a year. not to mention all parts of your life you will miss out on…just enjoy your life.

Answer #4

If you want a baby you need to also be able to provide everything it needs. Do you have a job to support yourself and this baby? Do you have a house to care for it in (that isn’t your parents)?

You may want a child but, do you think its fair to that baby to grow up without a father and full loving family? You can’t just dump a baby on your parents and expect them to provide for it, a child is your full responsibility not theirs.

You need to wait until you meet someone you truly care about and can marry and will take care of you and any future children and you need to be able to provide for a child. Don’t even think about it now.

Answer #5

sweetie, the best thing to do is wait, give yourself time to get out of school & better your life… it will benefit your child. I understand wanting a baby at such a young age, I was there… but I waited to get pregnant & honestly it was the BEST decision I’ve EVER made. I’m only 19 now but the life my child would have had 3 years ago doesnt even come close to the life ill be able to give her now.

Answer #6

no. Im sick og you brtty kids saying “oh I wanna kid! im 16 14 15 blah blah blah!” Just wait! your whole life changes when you have a kid! Its not about you anymore, its about that kid! Just shutup, finish school, get married, have sex, have a damn kid, and ull b abled 2 provide for the sweet heart!

Answer #7

well to have a baby you need to have sex! at 16 your not mature enough to havea child as you are still a child yourself. why dont you get a puppy and enjoy life before settling down to have a family with somone you love.

would you really be able to give your child all the things it need right now? how will you provide for it? how will you go to school how will you work?

Answer #8

look I had a kid when I was 15 and I could barely leave my house unless I had to get something for the baby then got knocked up again Dont let that happen to you or whoever you get pregnant

Answer #9

work as abby sitter for a wile

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