Verbal abuse from my parents? or is it normal?

So im a college bound student athlete. I’ve been playing softball for the 11 or 12 years. In order to get a scholarship I need to have a good academic record. Unfortunatly my grades arent looking so awsome. My mom and dad are getting into this college situation and they almost never talk about anything else except softball and college. When my parents check my grades and see I have a B or lower in one of my classes they sit there and yell and yell. Its usualy in the car on the way to school. My dad will drive like a mad man while screaming in my ear and of course having someone so close to me being so upset with me makes me break down and cry. But if I do, he only yells more. And my mom, its horrible. One time she called me a “ungreatful bitch” and didnt talk to me for weeks because I ot a B-. She says that they spent so much money on me and they regret it because im just going to throw it away. PLEASE HELP. I dont know if this is normal and they are just being concerned parents or if they are CRAZY.

Answer #1

WTF day shout if you got a B like WTF WTF WTF I think you should sit dem down and tell dem dhat waht dere doin is abnormal im srry 2 say they mite be crazy like it a bit weird or just MOVE OUT like WTF is just so stupid

Answer #2

You need to MOVE OUT.But if for some reason you can’t call a help line or just ingore for parents.They have NO right to say that and make you feel pity for self you Know your better then that.

Answer #3

I think you should probably call up someone that could help or you could move in with someone else I don’t know really srry

Answer #4

Wow… that really isn’t normal. I don’t really know what to say… except that they are out of order, they are emotionally bullying you… and that is bad. I’m not sure what advice to give, but you could always call childline or something… =]

Sorry that I wasn’t much help, but that was not normal.

Answer #5

it’s not normal at all wtf,no offense you couldn’t be me,bkuz whn my dad start tlkn ish and gettin up in my face I tlk ish bac,and tell him how I feel bout it,and if they tell you to shut up,keep going nkuz that is the only way they will listen,or do like my aunt tells me witchis somethng I dn’t do go for a wlk count to ten that crap doesn’t work for me,but if you cn’t do that,thn you just have to take it,but all I’m tellin you is to stand up for wht you know is rite for you,and you need to let them know that you tired of thr bullish ya digg

Answer #6

I know how you feel. My parents check my grades every night and freak out on me. They sit there and scream at for hours and I always end up crying. They’ve kept me grounded since 8th grade and I’m a junior in high school. They’ve taken all my stuff away and now their threatening to take away my books and make up. I know this isn’t much help, but you could try and get emmancipated. Just thought I’d let you know that your not the on;y one out there with parents that treat you like crap.

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