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Should I hookup with him?

I don’t know what to do =( I really really like my boyfriend and am really happy with him…but one of my oldest guy friends who had moved away about a year ago is coming back to visit. I really really missed him, and before he moved me and him were really close we would kiss too. Me and him would always flirt up until I met my boyfriend. But the thing is I cant get him out of my head and he told me he wants to hookup when he comes. Honestly I want to but my friend told me im going to feel really guilty about it. But my boyfriend doesnt need to know…right? I dont know what to do, because I never get to see my guy friend any more and I know that if he hadnt moved we would be going out =(

I want to hook up with him but I dont think I should Should I and not tell my boyfriend I mean its not like I would do it with any other guy because all the other guys I know are jerks and my boyfriend is amazing and nice I like sooo much

So I really dont know Should I hookup with him or not???

Please help =(

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Answer #1

and my boyfriend is amazing and nice I like sooo much

…and you’re pondering the idea of having sex with some other guy. SERIOUSLY? You’re actually unsure what to do in this situation?

sigh

Your boyfriend should dump you…

Answer #2

I understand how you feel…your never going to feel right with urself if you dont hook up with him but your never going to feel right with urself if you do, is it worth sacrficing your boyfriend? maybe you should hook up with him to get him out of your head…maybe hes right for you and not your boyfriend, if its in your heart…take the risk, you never know what it may lead to

Answer #3

I feel sorry for your boyfriend

Answer #4

no! a hook up is very wrong especially if you have a boyfreind telling him about the it would kill him and not telling him about it will kill him even more when he does find out this guy should respect the fact that you have a boyfreind and you should be more responsible you are puting your boyfreinds feelings, trust and love at risk if you want to be with your boyfriend, stay with him hooking up with some other guy will just ruin your relatonship frankly though I think he deserves better if you love him, you wouldnt even consider hooking up with someone else WHILE your still with him if its just a quick f*ck your after dump your boyfreind and be with the guy sorry to seem rude if I did but you need to use your commonsense!

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