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What if I'm falling for my friend's hookup partner?

I don’t know what to do, im falling for him, he’s falling for me and we are both tired of sneaking around about it. They have not been together since we started hanging out a lot. I feel like a horrible friend and I tried telling him today, maybe we shouldn’t do this anymore b/c I don’t wanna ruien my relationship with my friend over a guy, and he tells me he knows its not his decision, but he doesn’t want to completely end it. He told me he would think about it and figure out how we could work this out. For me to just give him a little time to think it. I feel so horrible sneaking around my friend to be with this guy, but IDK what else to do.

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Dump the D O G and apologize to your friend. He cheated on her and he will cheat on you. As for his wanting to stay connmected with you. . . He only wants the benefits of it. You are worth more than that. Don’t let him or any guy use you as a depository. Your friendships are dear and could be for a lifetime. So should your commitment to a man be. Good Luck Gino

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