What am I suppose to do he has a girlfriend?

I’ve been talking to my ex-boyfriend a lot latley and I have feelings for him still. He has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a while now.. And he said “would you hookup with me and do stuff my girlfriend wont know” I know it’s so wrong but I want to soo bad .. What do I do? Do I tell the girlfriend? Or tell him no? Or do what I want? Help!

Answer #1

He just wants to use you as a fling on the side. Stop talking to him and stay with your current boyfriend, or if he is not enough, find someone else that is. Or tell the x that the only way your getting with him is if he leaves his girl first.

Answer #2

do both first off put your feelings for him aside look at this as if you wernt involved here is a boy (not a man, a boy/child) with raging hormones whos horny pretty much all the time and most likley lacks the drive to be in a committed relationship, or at least one for very long he has a girlfreind, and is also saying he wants hookup with his ex behind his girfreinds back now does that sound wrong? because everything there is wrong if your friend was telling you about a guy who did this you would think he was a jerk right? also, if hes doing it to her you can BET he will do the same to you hes not worth it, hes a player tell his girlfreind what hes doing and that hes not trustworthy and tell yourself not to be with some idiot whos going to cheat on his current partner you dont need to stoop that low, you deserve better

Answer #3

Thank you guys soo much

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