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Should I stop my random hookups and have a relationship?

sooo over the summer I just hooked up w/ like a ton of people all the time and I mean it was fun and everything but now that the school years starting im not sure if I should keep on w/ just hooking up w/ people or try and have an actual relationship w/ someone

theres a few people that I actually reeeallyy like from the summer people that I would consider having a relationship w/ except idkkk bc I loveee random hookups every now and then too and im not sure I could be like a loyal girlfriend and everything and also, I’ve alwaysss just hooked up w/ people and never had a serious relationship w/ anyoneee everrr bc I just never really wanted to sooo idkk what to dooo what do you guys thinkk???

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Answer #1

You just pretty much answered your own question if you ask me. You love random hook ups and granted there are a few guys that you really like from the summer, you don’t think it’s enough to give up the random hook ups at the moment right? If you aren’t ready for a exclusive relationship then don’t force it. When the time is right you’ll know and you won’t worry about being able to stay loyal or missing the lifestlye. Not saying that everything will be perfect because things do happen sometime it’s life, but you won’t put this much thought into it.

Answer #2

well i would have to agree with you random hook ups are hot and they are very fun. but relationships are great. you will know when you want to have a relationship with a guy coz you will really really like him. and hopefully you will like him enough to be able to be loyal to him just relax for now the right person will come and you will know when he is there coz he will sweep you off your feet and you will totaly dig him this might sound cheesy but its right :) hope this helped you :D

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