What should I say to my mom about this issue?

At 21 there isent much she can do..she is going to be upset letting you go…but you have to move on sometime…also..I would consider moveing out maby…not saying you need to..but start looking into your own appartment/condo…its a lot more private..but hope this helps

I agree with Colethky, you should explain what steps you’ve taken to make sure you’re safe and then see what she says. At 21 you are an adult, but still living in your parent’s home. Maybe your mum is having trouble letting go of you, many mothers do. She’s probably uptight about sex because that’s how she was brought up. You sound to me to be quite mature and sensible. Try to understand and be compassionate to your mum, and maybe she’ll soften towards you. Sometimes a nice letter or card can really help break a deadlock. Hope this helps. All the best. Frances

well I dont see ho your mom expect you to tell her any thing aboutur sex life when she as never had the takl with you im in the same boat that your in im 20 the inly thing my mom as said to me and bout sex is dont do it and what happens when you tell some one not to do some thing? there gonna do it. but any way your any adult now and you need to confront your my for crist sake they got you payin rent so technically its not like your disrespectin there house. your just gonna have to talk to her cause I mean whjat dose she want you to do wait until your 50

No matter how old you are it will still be hard for a parent to find out that their child is having sex. If you were my daughter I would be glad that you’re being responsible but I would still find it shocking, especially if I found out the way that she did.

As for what to say to her…just tell her that you’re being responsible and careful and let it go, listen to what she has to say but don’t argue about it because this will only reinforce her belief that you’re too young.

I dont think anyone should go through anyones trash even if they are your parnets