How to deal with Mom issues about living with my boyfriend?

well.. to her, living together before marriage (cohabitation) is very immoral.. she’s very religious and I guess you would say traditional?

I have had the same problem as you. I am going to move in with my boyfriend my first year of college and my mom was completely against it at first. SHe has now come to terms that it is my decision and I have done nothign wrong in my life and she knows how independent I am. She now has become more involved and just wanting to know the plans and make sure I will be fine. I think you just need to talk to her about it and let her know that this is what you want to do and she can either support you or not. Most likely she will support you as her daughter and will understand eventually. Just make sure to fill her in on the details so she does not feel like you are hiding anything from her.

Well I would say that if you do not have sex till after marriage then you are keeping God law and not committing a sin…living together is not immoral sex before mairrage to Christians is wrong and a few other religions to. You will be 18years old though and then well the choice is not hers.

Maybe talk to her about keeping you verginity till then she may feel better and also talk to her about how you are soon to be an adult and in control over your own life.

I don’t understand… what morals are you ruining? You don’t have sex. You don’t party. You sound like a very responsible 17 year old, what is your mom complaining about? Tell her you’ve talked about the pros and cons about living together are, even tell her what they are. Give her details. I don’t think it really has anything to do with morals.. I think she’s also being a typical mom who doesn’t want to let go of her kid!

I don’t understand… what morals are you ruining? You don’t have sex. You don’t party. You sound like a very responsible 17 year old, what is your mom complaining about? Tell her you’ve talked about the pros and cons about living together are, even tell her what they are. Give her details. I don’t think it really has anything to do with morals.. I think she’s also being a typical mom who doesn’t want to let go of her kid!