He said I have to put on weight

F-U-C-K him (:

If you don’t like this man, and there’s such a big age difference between you, then just leave him.

Not the man for you - you can do MUCH better !

hes too friggin old if hes 54 and if hes a jerk, to hell with him, you worked for your body and he doesn’t care, move on. it might suck for a while but thats fine and dandy when you’ll be happy soon enough.

I dont like him but the old man said 2 me I look ugly and I ll hv 2 put on weight..

Obviously you should END THE RELATIONSHIP.

you should either talk to him about how you feel , go to marriage counseling or something, or/and end the relationship! I hope you the best of luck.

I assume this is an arranged marriage? because horror of horrors, you’re still single at the age of 30? (sarcasm intended) look, it is a lot better to stay single for a little while longer (yes yes, I know, your family is pressuring you) than to marry a jerk like this. He’s old, sounds like a jerk. Why on earth would you tie yourself to a guy like that for the rest of your life? You’re attractive, and you’re still young. You will find someone who will treat you better… And he’s an idiot btw, there’s nothing wrong with you. He’s just afraid that if you’re young, attractive and have self confidence you’ll go find someone else.

Don’t let him get to you and don’t put on weight for him he doesn’t deserve you if he’s acting like this. If you did a lot of hardwork to get your figure the way you want it don’t let him tell you otherwise. And, the relationship probably isn’t working out because of the age difference and if you don’t like him you have to leave him. Good luck.

I think you are old enough to make a right decision based on your scenario.

No one is forcing you to marry a 54 year man. You are looking for a husband, not a father!

I think 30 is the most appropriate age to get married. People are emotionally and financially secured at that age.

You are still young so make the best of your youth years.

Personally I would rather stay single all my life than marry a 54 year old bag of garbage and make my own life a living hell!