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How can I get my parents to like the guy I like?

ok i met this guy at the beginning of summer he is 18 and will be a senior at my school… I just turned 16 a coupple weeks ago… well my mom met him and she was fine with him although she thought he was a player.. but he is super sweet and he makes me laugh and he isnt like any other guy i have ever met. well for one he has a tatoo and his toung pierced..i have never liked a guy that has had a tatoo or his toung pierced but i like him.. he also had his lip pierced but took that out! if my dad knew he has a tatoo or his toung pierced he would automatically forbid it! my dad HATES toung piercings…. anyway my mom went out of town this week and i invited him to come over to dwim and well i wasent supposed to and we kinda got cought and now my parents dont trust me although we did nothing wrong. what do i do.. i dont want to giive him up because i do really like him but i dont want to hurt my parents… I need some advicebad!

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Answer #1

You need to give your parects time to get used to the fact that kids grow up and start finding older people attractive. If your parents are really conservative then invite him over for dinner and keep everything lowkey, to show ur parents the sensitive side of ur guy.

Answer #2

well this is love for you. hey thanks for asking me for your problems im glad you ask heres some tips.when you hang out with him do you feel the sparks and when he makes you laugh do you just love it when he does that then your in love and nothing can stand in the way to love. i believe that if you love him that much you should tell your parents how you feel about this guy first before you introduce him to them. then i guess you can bring him home to mom and dad remember nothing can stand in the way of ture love.

Answer #3

This kinda thing takes time, alot of time. If your bf wantss to comit to it he can. Make sure ur dad never sees his tatoo until he trusts ur bf and if you can get ur bf over for dinner and get him to be a gentleman and whenever hes over keep in sight of you parents so they can see hes not doing anything bad to hurt you. your parents only wanna keep you safe and don’t want you to grow up. Your dad needs to see that this guy can take care of his “little girl” properly. The trust thing will take LOTS of time and DO NOT do anything against your parents wishes and maybe in time they’ll trust you and your bf

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